If your better half is keeping you awake at night, you aren’t alone. One in three Americans report that their partner negatively affects their sleep. No matter how much we love our partners, sometimes, they are the reason we can’t sleep at night. Whether it’s snoring or stealing all the blankets at night, incompatible sleep patterns greatly affect the quality of your sleep.
If you’re at your breaking point and need some shut-eye, the Scandinavian sleeping method may drastically improve how you sleep at night. Let’s dig into what it is and why you should try it.
Also, see our editor’s favorite sleep tips and how to tackle anxiety before bed.
What is the Scandinavian sleeping method?
The Scandinavian sleeping method is common in some parts of the world — Sweden, Norway, Denmark and some other parts of Europe. The idea is simple: Instead of sharing a blanket at night, you and your partner each have your own. It’s not about avoiding intimacy or sacrificing a part of your relationship. It’s about prioritizing your sleep needs so that both of you can wake up well-rested and energized.
Most people use two twin-size comforters or duvets for the Scandinavian sleeping method. This sleeping style typically works best on king mattresses to give the separate blankets the most room, but queen mattresses work fine for most people.
Traditionally, you forgo the shared flat sheet for this. If you’re like me and love flat sheetsyou can always opt for two flat sheets, in addition to separate blankets. There’s no right or wrong way to do it.
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Two comforters can help you sleep better
Sharing a comforter with your partner might not be the best option for your needs, and that’s OK. Sleep is inherently a single-player sport. It’s not something you are required to share with your partner. For many people, sharing a blanket might not be the best move for your sleep quality. One study found that sharing comforters results in 30% more interrupted sleep.
By each having their own blanket, the half-asleep tug-of-war battle is eliminated, and so are all the times you wake up because you’re cold and blanketless. You also can adjust positions at night without worrying about affecting your partner.
Remember that the Scandinavian sleeping method isn’t reserved just for those who live with a blanket hogger. It’s a good option for anyone who tosses and turns or has a different sleeping pattern that may wake up their partner.
You can personalize your sleep experience
When my boyfriend is asleep, he turns into an (almost literal) pool of lava, kicking off the blanket to cool down. I’m not like that; I like to burrow into my blanket all night.
Having two blankets allows for personalization in temperature. Temperature is essential when we sleep; it triggers when we fall asleep and wake up. Getting too warm or too cold will interrupt our circadian rhythm.
If your partner is a hot sleeper who only wants to use a sheet while you like to wrap in a comforter burritothen you have that freedom with separate bedding. You have the choice to use a quilt, fuzzy blanket or light duvet, while your partner could use nothing at all — or something more substantial, like a weighted blanket.
Will two blankets solve all of your problems?
If your sleep problems are due to your or your partner’s underlying sleep disorder, using two blankets won’t solve everything, although it can help protect you from additional sleep disturbances. Sleep is essential for health. When we sleep, our bodies go into recharge mode. Getting enough sleep will result in better memory and concentration, a stronger immune system and better heart health. If you’re not getting enough sleep at nightit’s important to figure out why.
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It may be as simple as using the wrong pillow or sleeping on a mattress that’s too old and needs to be replaced. It could be something more serious like sleep apnea or insomnia that can significantly disturb your sleep. It’s best to talk to your doctor if you’re not sleeping well to explore the underlying causes.
