Not everyone leaves America with a solid plan in hand. Some find themselves having to return, even when things were finally starting to look up.
TA robotics engineer was once part of a leading self-driving car team in the U.S. Unfortunately, he didn’t get lucky in the H1B lottery. That one missed opportunity turned his world upside down.
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His company offered a temporary solution—remote work from India, but at a lower salary. It wasn’t perfect, but it kept the hope alive for another shot at the H1B or a possible L1 transfer.
Then, just two months after he returned, he got laid off. No backup plan, no new job offer—just an empty silence in his inbox.
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For someone from a lower-middle-class background, that job was about so much more than just career advancement. It meant being able to pay off loans, improve living conditions, and build a future with some stability.
Meanwhile, friends from similar backgrounds managed to stay in the U.S. Many found jobs that weren’t particularly technical, but they were lucky enough to get picked in the lottery. That difference stings.
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Even personal relationships can struggle under this kind of uncertainty. His partner in the U.S. decided to end things—who wants to be in a long-distance relationship with no clear way back?
Fortunately, he had saved most of his earnings. But savings can’t always ease the emotional burden that comes with suddenly losing your direction.
There’s no bitterness, just a weary acceptance. It was always understood that visa systems are unpredictable, and the path in the U.S. isn’t a sure thing.
Still, it’s tough when logic and emotion are at odds. The mind gets it, but the heart still feels the pain.
These days, he’s lacking motivation. He’s toying with the idea of pursuing a PhD, maybe finding another way back—but right now, everything feels like it’s on hold.
Robotics is expanding in India, but the U.S. offered a different level of exposure—more tools, more challenges, and more opportunities to create something meaningful. That’s what hurts the most.
Losing a job is tough. But losing your sense of direction, purpose, and connection—that’s a whole different ballgame.
Many people quietly pick up the pieces after such setbacks, often stepping away from social media and the public eye. For them, each small step forward feels like a silent battle against comparison, burnout, and the pressure to recover quickly.
